VOICE OF A HOMEMAKER

 

Is a homemaker is dhende-ch-choru( the person who is of no use and does not earn for his livelihood but eats on others)in home.why is being a housewife looked down upon?Really Intelligent people do not look down upon housewives,only uneducated and stupid people do. Homemaker is more respectful and dignified. The earlier period and now too many husband's didn't recognise their wives as a homemaker. while I was talking to one of my aunty who is looking for bride to her son she says one statement which hurts a lot," we are looking for a working girl or who will give free of food and everything dhende-ch-choru" ,I was shocked and acquisited her that why aunty if you are looking for a working girl means its upto your choice for that how could you say like this you too a homemaker and how you down yourself?

Men can expect their future wives to be employed so he can reduce the financial burden. Though the husband's or in-laws perception of his wife or daughter-in-law doesn't go up or down fall on whether they are employed or not. Commonly many homemaker may crossed this type of questions" Are you working? , No I m home maker" oh ! You wasted your education. They thought that a homemaker contributes nothing of value but only knows how to spend her husband money. We talk women being independent,not dependent on husband's money,many successful women are getting recognition as their career in professional. In my opinion it's to be changed every women as a homemaker are a successful women to face with. Many women feel guiltwhile looking an employed women though they are well educated. We have wasted our graduation. How many of them are really working based on their degree they have? Ancient histories describes women education " if you educate a women,you educate a whole family & nation ". An educated woman will actively play a better role in directing her children in a right path so please don't judge, underestimate homemaker. If you are not ready to accept their thoughts then keep quiet don't criticize keep supporting.After reading this share your comments